The everyday dealings we have with others, the dates and new relationships and the disappointments have a tendency to beat our ideals out of our heads. We forget that when we were fifteen we dreamed of finding a man who would “fill in the blank”. Before we go on our first date, before we get in that new relationship or even a long standing relationship, it is often helpful to remember those answers in those blanks, the expectations we had that were merely forgotten.
This is not a quiz to be graded, there are no right or wrong answers and no one has to know your answers. If you would like to share with others, feel free, just please link back to me.
Tall or short?
Muscular, skinny, bearlike or the body your current love has?
Hair – Brown, blonde, red or extreme?
Eyes – Brown, blue, green or gray?
Do you like piercings or not?
Do you like tattoos or not?
Older or younger than you?
What is your favorite part of a guy?
Favorite quality in a guy?
First physical trait you look for?
Pretty or rugged?
Hairy or not hairy?
Do you like facial hair, or a certain style of facial hair?
Do you like accents?
Do you like men of a certain race or culture?
What is your “type”?
In love means…
A good relationship is one where…?
Ever been in love?
Is there someone you’re in love with?
Ever had a crush?
Do you have a crush now?
What are your favorite qualities about your past/current boyfriend/husband/etc.?
Your least favorite?
Favorite romantic comedy?
Favorite romantic tearjerker?
Favorite term of endearment?
Favorite happy romantic song?
Favorite sad romantic song?
What male celebrity(ies) do you like?
Is there a relationship you admire(known, celebrity or fictional)?
Ideal career for your perfect man?
Knight, Florence Nightingale, Cinderella, Schoolgirl, The Graduate, Badboy, or something else?
How do you want to be treated?
What do you want someone to say when you’re upset?
What is the best compliment?
What kind of wedding would you most like?
Have you ever imagined how you’d like a man to propose?
Would you like to take your husband’s name?
Ideal first date?
Ideal second date?
Favorite sexual fantasy?
Favorite nonsexual fantasy?
What is the best sex you’ve ever had?
Do you like a little foreplay or a lot?
Where do you most like to be kissed?
Spontaneous, romantic, kinky?
Where do you most like to be touched?
Do you like to be kissed in public?
Do you like to have you butt slapped, grabbed or held in public?
What sense most excites you – smell, taste, sight, touch, or sound?
Do you like to cuddle?
Do you like talking during sex?
Favorite place to have sex?
Favorite time of day to have sex?
Do you like to be tickled?
Would you like to be dominant or submissive?
Most sexy thing about men?
Most sexy words?
Best way to initiate sex?
First time you have sex with a certain person, what would you prefer it to be like?
When do you feel sexy?